Children use
social networking sites like Facebook extensively to communicate and chat with
their friends and strangers. Children are exposed to “stranger danger” or “cyber
bullying” or trolling when they post information of value and their privacy
settings are not appropriately set allowing criminals, bullies, perverts and
pedophiles to view their posts.
Many of these
sites have member enabled privacy settings to restrict the viewing audience to preset
categories such as friends, friends of friends and public. These broad privacy
mechanisms are not sufficient to prevent determined strangers from viewing
posts by surreptiously becoming part of these categories.
If your child
does not accept strangers as friend because you have taught him well, but his
friend does, then his post with a friend of friend restriction will be viewed
by the stranger. The stranger can then comment on the post which will in turn
be seen by your child. Eventually, this familiarity and the fact that the
stranger is a friend of a friend may eventually lead to the stranger’s
acceptance as a friend.
Types of personal
information that puts a child or family at risk are:- Disclosure of identity, home address and movements
- Disclosure of information on family issue or wealth
- Financial information
- Sharing of passwords due to teen culture
- Sexual explicit messages and videos sent to partners can be put online when the relationship sours
- Embarrassing photo’s or video’s and hurtful or insulting contents
Personal
information may be posted voluntarily or in chat room conversation. In chat
rooms children may disclose information that they would not normally post when
asked a question by a trusted strangers or even because they believe that they
are anonymous. Personal information can be disclosed through a variety of ways.
Listed below are a few of them:
- Profile Pages
- Pictures
- Posts and Chats
- Using Webcams
- Using SMS, IM’s and MMS
- Video Chats